Murky: Its actually not that murky, I dont think.
Do dress up as something. Do not dress up as a member of a race, ethnicity or culture of which you are not a member.
And when in doubt, ask yourself, is this hurting or foreseeably insulting anyone, mocking anyone or condescending to anyone?
Its not perfect, but its well-meaning without everyone having to be an M&M.
Re: Costumes: You can absolutely comprehend it, if you take time to read/hear and understand the offense. There’s even…